Is Masturbation More Pleasurable Than Real Sex?

Is Masturbation More Pleasurable Than Real Sex

It is safe to say that masturbation gives you instantaneous gratification. Those of us in a relationship will be aware that your partner is not always up for sex, and even if they are, life sometimes gets in the way. However, spending two minutes jerking yourself off get scratch that itch if you find yourself feeling horny.

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It is that speed that’s also a reason why masturbation is sometimes better than sex. Often you don’t want to get yourself hot and sticky, spending ages getting someone else into a high state of arousal. Masturbating can be quick and efficient, without the pressure of having to perform.

There is also the ability to fantasize about who you wish. An ex-partner, a colleague, a celebrity. This is not something that you would naturally do when you are with an actual partner.

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The fact is, masturbation acts as a great stress reliever. In fact doctors in Nottingham have actually said that staff should be given masturbation breaks, I kid you not. I like the idea, but considering the urine I see on the seat when I go to our office loo, I certainly don’t want people jerking off in there.

There is a time for everything, and most of us find time to masturbate due to its many benefits. It is best to think of it as an added extra to sex, rather than a replacement that has been chosen.

Masturbation is always better than real sex for “most” of the people.

Why do I say so? Following are the reasons.

  • For real sex you need two people and both of them have to find time for sex.
  • Both of them have to be in mood for best sex.
  • Both of them have to be free from many things which are normally on their mind.
  • Both of them need to be absolutely be crazy for pleasurable sex.
  • Both of them have to be in mood to satisfy the other person the way the other person wants.

Every single time this can not happen and hence most of the time real sex is not as pleasurable as we think in our fantasies.

  • That is why people have affairs.
  • Go and look for sexual partners who can fulfill their desires and needs.

Coming back to masturbation and its pleasures:

  • It is you just you and yourself.
  • Who knows best what you want.
  • When you want it.
  • How you want it.
  • Where you want it.
  • You can watch all your favorite pornography.
  • Fantasize who ever you wish about.
  • You can take your own time and pleasure yourself the way you want.
  • Anything you want you can do without feeling ashamed.
  • You are in control of yourself.
  • Play with yourself whole night and day.

Related: Is it possible to get orgasm after orgasm?

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There are no limitations and sky is the limit. That is why masturbation is more pleasurable and safest.

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Happy masturbating.

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